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You are not alone

We're here for you, right now.

Reaching out takes courage. Whatever you're facing, a trained advocate is ready to listen, confidentially and without judgment, 24 hours a day.

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When you reach out

What happens when you call

1

We listen

An advocate hears you out with compassion. No pressure, no judgment, and you stay in control of every decision.

2

We plan for safety

Together we create a practical safety plan tailored to your situation, whether you stay, leave, or are still deciding.

3

We connect you

From emergency shelter to counseling and housing, we connect you to the right support and walk with you.

Are you experiencing abuse?

Abuse is a pattern of behavior used to gain power and control over another person. It can happen to anyone, of any age, gender, or background. If any of these feel familiar, you deserve support.

  • A partner monitors where you go, who you see, or what you spend
  • You feel afraid of your partner's reactions or temper
  • Someone controls your money, documents, or access to help
  • You're pressured, threatened, or forced into anything sexual
  • A partner puts you down, blames you, or isolates you from others
  • You've been hurt, or threatened with harm, by someone close to you
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Make a safety plan

A safety plan is a personalized set of steps to help you stay safe, whether you're in a relationship or preparing to leave.

  • Keep important documents and a small bag somewhere safe
  • Identify safe people and places you can go to quickly
  • Memorize key phone numbers in case you lose your phone

Helping a friend or family member

If someone you love may be in an unhealthy relationship, your support matters more than you know.

  • Listen without judgment and believe what they share
  • Let them make their own decisions on their own timeline
  • Share our hotline. We support loved ones too
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Everyone is welcome here

Our services are inclusive and culturally responsive, whether you're Spanish-speaking, LGBTQ+, young, elderly, or from any community in Ventura County. You belong here, and your safety matters.

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